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Can you have a healthy relationship with a narcissist?

Can you have a healthy relationship with a narcissist?

Narcissists can be complicated and manipulative people, and being in a relationship with a narcissist can be a little difficult if you don’t how to deal with such people. Narcissists are very difficult to understand. Why?

Because at times, these people can be really helpful and seem like they care about you like anything and other times, they might not even talk and might not respond. So, kit vets very difficult to be in a relationship with such people.

Narcissists lack the skill set that makes for strong relationships, like empathy, kindness, maturity, reciprocity, compassion. But narcissists are seen as great providers because they are charming and they always give their partner with a grand gesture and these people do have a good job and money (according to a study).

A relationship with a narcissist can seem to be healthy in the initial phase as all the material needs would be met by the partner who is narcissist as he/she believes in giving material gifts but is unable to understand emotional feelings at times. This is the reason it becomes difficult to survive in a relationship as there comes a limit where one can grow in this kind of relationship.

Healthy relationships are based on mutual respect and trust; these are the traits that a narcissistic relationship is highly unlikely to possess. For most narcissists, their relationships are transactional. For them, the relationship is like a game and their ultimate goal is to win. They are also very manipulative and can manipulate anyone. This is one of the reasons that they win peoples’ love and admiration. They brag to be respected, loved, and glorified.

Some narcissists are adept and persuasive lovers and may have many conquests, yet remain single. While some narcissists express their love via materialism.

Here are some of the tricks to deal with narcissists and have a healthy and successful relationship.

  1. Know what you want

Do not expect fairness. They are just above themselves. So, it’s better to know what you want and let them know. They will surely fulfill all your wants mostly materialistic ones. So, in this way you can remain happy and lead a successful relationship even with a narcissist.

  1. Reinforce positive behavior: If you are in a relationship with a narcissist, you need to take care of his/her self-esteem. It’s crucial to know where and how they need to have their self-esteem enhanced. You can praise a specific behavior, such as how well he/she has handled the work at office or home or anything that would make them feel good about themselves. This could reinforce the behavior and promote self-esteem. This would be beneficial in having a strong and successful relationship.

Be realistic: Everyone in the relationship expects love, care, support, honesty from each other. Narcissists are nit bad people, even they do have certain expectations, but they are very realistic. They do not get laid on emotions. For them, what they see matters the most. So, if you are in a relationship with a narcissist, be sure that have realistic goals and a realistic approach towards life. This would be better for both of you in the future.

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