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Embrace Your Kinky Side

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Embrace Your Kinky Side

Kinky relationships often have more intimacy and passion than the regular vanilla ones, simply due to openness between the two individuals. However, it takes guts to open up to your partner and discuss your fetishes and kinks that would love to explore.

And I feel it’s completely fine if you love spanking or any form of bondage or enjoyed being dominated but do not enjoy sex with pain. You can enjoy sex only if you get pleasure out of it. And if pain and pleasure go well with you, then you can definitely go for it.

As such in order to embrace your kinky side, you need to celebrate what you find most arousing, enjoy it without any shame and you are completely fine to talk about it.

So, how do you explore your kinks and how do get comfortable with your fetishes in a world that still thinks being kinky is to “pervert”?

Difficult, right?

But, go ahead with what you feel is right and explore everything that you have thought of. Here are a few pointers on how to embrace your kinky side.

Know about your kinks

The first step is to know about your kinks and what gives you pleasure. You need to ask yourself first to know what kind of kinks you are into. And then you can get your partner aroused by trying something new and interesting. But, it’s important to talk to your partner about your fetishes before so that both of you stay on the same page.

Explore your style

Kinks are different for every person. For one person being kinky might be getting into a role play with the partner, for some it might to have sex in some secluded area. While for some it might be trying out anal. So, it’s you who need to explore this side of yours. What actually being kinky means to you and then you can definitely go for it.

Talk about your fetishes

When you talk about your fantasies and fetishes to your partner, try to be specific and clear. You don’t have to be shy about it, be confident and talk it out. Also, make sure you ask your partner about their fantasies as well, whether there is anything they would love to try and discussing these things would make it more fun. Just try out by saying how much you love it when they bite your ear/ suck your neck/ dominates you and how it would be great to take this further.
Explore with a sense of curiosity and playfulness!

Be Confident

The energy of knowing yourself and exploiting yourself sexually is what turns the others the most. It turns them on sexually, mentally, and in every aspect. So, whenever you try your kinky side, be confident in order to make your partner get turned on. They will surely love this side of yours.

Express it explicitly

Try out your sexy moves that might be inviting for your partner. Be expressive, do talk in your kinky session. Let your partner know how much you are enjoying. This will make them love you the session even more. Be relaxed and enjoy what you love!

Safety always comes first

When making fantasy a reality, you need to keep a few things in mind. Don’t be too drunk or high or without a safe word. And ensure you do have protection ready. Do not just go with the flow. You might regret it later. So, keep everything ready, be it a lube, kinky toys, condoms, pills, etc. And make sure these are safe to use!

Give it a shot

Have your partner ever asked for BDSM or anything that’s really kinky? If you are uncomfortable with it, you have every right to say no. But, you didn’t say “yes” just because you were shy or didn’t know how to react at that time, it’s time to talk about it. Reveal your other side and let your partner know about your interests. Communicate!!!

Use your imagination, and know more about your kinky side. Experience it with your partner and you might develop a strong and closer bond which might lead to amazing sex life.

As you get more comfortable with kinky sex, you might expand into a wilder one. And it’s not necessary to get involved in each and every kinky activity, embrace the kinky side of your sexuality. And don’t ever be ashamed of what you love and enjoy in bed as that’s exactly your true kinky side!

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