What type of Relationship do you fit in?

What type of Relationship do you fit in?

The definition of “Love” is different for everyone. Love is a different feeling for every person. Everyone connects love with their own set of emotions. When the meaning and feeling of love is different for each and every person, there is no doubt that there are various types of relationships.

Not all relationships that you experience would be a pleasant experience, some relationships get sour and some stay forever. But, ultimately you will find your type of relationship in which you and your partner would find happiness.

When you first enter in a relationship, you may not be able to predict the kind of relationship you are in, but in a few months of time, you will know exactly what type of relationship you are into.

Here are some of the relationship types. Find out in which you and your partner fit in.

Monogamous Relationships

Monogamous relationships are the most traditional ones. People in monogamous relationships have only one romantic partner at a time. In this relationship, the two people have decide to be with each other the lifetime and not with anyone else. When you decide to be in a monogamous relationship, you are committing yourself to be that one special person. He/she will be your only romantic partner the whole life.

Monogamous relationshipsA monogamous relationship might sound like an ideal relationship, but it has its own set of challenges. You need to find some interesting ways to keep the spark alive in the relationship.  Monogamy is not for everyone. If you feel like you just can’t commit to one person the whole lifetime, monogamy is not for you.

Sometimes people get bored in a monogamous relationship, they wander something is missing. But do not let your eyes wander in this case. Instead, try to find ways to work on it. You can speak to your partner clearly and sort it out. However, if you get indulged in infidelity, this can end your relationship with your significant other. So, you need to be really careful before taking any step.

If you really want your monogamous relationship to work out, you should daily communicate with your partner and put some effort to bring romance and spark in your relationship. And there is something really comforting about the monogamous relationship that you have someone special who would be there for you always. Your partner’s attention will be completely on you and this will make you special more and more.

Polyamorous Relationship

When someone is in a polyamorous relationship, this means they have more than one romantic partner at a time. And this is not infidelity as every partner knows about the other. The key to a successful polyamorous relationship is honest and effective communication between all the parties involved. In a polyamorous relationship, the number of people involved is more than two and other people are welcomed into the relationship. And it is not considered as cheating as everyone is in a relationship together.

In a polyamorous relationship, everyone’s lives are intertwined and in some cases, everyone might love together as well. And if this happens, everyone should be understanding and must get along otherwise, the relationship might not last for long.

This type of relationship can be a bit complicated at times, since there are more emotions and dynamics to take into consideration.

So, before you enter a polyamorous relationship, you need to sit down with everyone involved and prepare guidelines and rules.

If you are in a polyamorous relationship, you should always be honest and talk about your feelings. You should respect each other’s boundaries and make sure nobody gets hurt in the process.

Open Relationships

An Open relationship is a hybrid of a monogamous and polyamorous relationship. In an open relationship, both the partners can share physical intimacy with anyone else other than their partner. This is implied when someone is in an open relationship. So, each partner can have as many partners as they want. This means both the persons are open to dating other people as well as being in a relationship with each other.

But, an open relationship does not mean you neglect your partner. Like any other relationship, trust, honesty, and communication are the keys to a successful open relationship. So, both the partner should set some rules and boundaries before taking the next step in the relationship.

Both the partners should abide by all the rules and boundaries. Many couples also write down what would be fine to do in the bedroom with the person and what not. And it would be good of both the partners respect each other’s conditions. And if not, the relationship might not be successful in the long-term. There are high chances of getting into infidelity in an open relationship as both the partners are involved with different people and you never know if any one of the partners develop emotional and physical intimacy with the other person.

If you are in an open relationship, you should always remember to be safe and secure. You need remember to check on your significant other on a regular basis and make sure you both are respecting each other’s wishes.

An open-relationship is for those people who fear commitment but would want to get in a relationship. But both the partner should be on the same page when having this kind of relationship. And jealousy and possessiveness are a big “No-No”. If these two elements crops in, the relationship no longer can be an open one.

If you are in an open relationship, then you should always remember to be safe. Remember to check in with your significant other on a regular basis and to make sure that you are respecting each other’s wishes as well.

Long-Distance Relationships

A long-distance relationship is a relationship between two people who are in a relationship but stay far away from each other. They do not stay in the same country or the same city. A long-distance relationship can really test the strongest of relationships.

Long-distance relationships are difficult to maintain but not impossible. Couples in such a relationship not only face the brunt of long-distance but also physical and emotional loneliness.

But, these days we have many mediums through which one can stay connected with each other. It is necessary for long-distance couples to have a conversation every day and see each other often through a video call. And also they need to make sure they plan to visit each other once in a month at least.

You will have to find ways to keep the relationship interesting. It wouldn’t be possible to meet often, but you can talk every day, and also you can have a video call. You can watch a movie together being online and also try getting naughty at times to keep the spark alive in the relationship. Keep each other informed about your daily routine and let your partner know about your day and important events. Plan surprises or surprise visits. These little efforts would make your relationship strong and successful.

This is what it takes in being in a long-distance relationship. It’s not that difficult to survive when you love each other and understand each other pretty well.

The Co-Dependent Relationship

In a co-dependent relationship, you and your partner are dependent on each other. This relationship implies a degree of unhealthy clinginess, where one person doesn’t have independence; one or both the partners are dependent on their loved ones for any kind of fulfillment. In this kind of relationship, the couples are mostly seen with each other and it feels like they seem to do everything together.

According to a research, people whose parents had emotionally abused or neglected them in their teenage or early-age seem to be more likely to enter into a co-dependent relationship.

There are two roles that each partner plays in this relationship: the giver and the taker. The giver continues to overcompensate for his or her partner, while the taker avoids assuming responsibility. They rely heavily on each other not for love and care, but also for safety and security.

The givers tend to have a never-ending and subliminal need to keep their relationship alive. They just want this relationship to survive anyhow and they can take any step to pursue this. While, the takers tend to have avoidant attachment styles, which means, they try to avoid any emotional connection. As they are the takers, they get much more out of the relationship that they put in.

In a co-dependent relationship, after a long period of time, it might happen that the couples could not function when they are apart. This is when a co-dependent relationship becomes unhealthy. A co-dependent relationship is healthy when a couple is able to be apart from each other and not rely on each other for each and everything.

You might be in a co-dependent relationship, but try not to overdo things. Let your partner have a night out with their friends, so do not become overly dependent on each other.

Independence is a quality that everyone should possess. Not being able to stay away from your partner might cause problems in your relationship in the future.

Dominant/Submissive Relationship

When we say a dominant/submissive relationship, it means either of the partners is dominant or submissive in the bedroom. Some people even switch their roles from time to time.
You might have watched the movie or read the book “Fifty Shades of Gray”. This is the story of a dominant and submissive relationship. There are bondage and a variety of activities and toys used in the bedroom.

The idea of dominant and submissive relationships highly applies to the bedroom but it can be applied to everyday life in a relationship as well. When we talk about normal daily routine life, if one of the partners is dominant, he/she will take all the decisions and will be demanding. He/she would be the leader in the relationship. While the submissive would just want to please them by obeying all their orders and keep them happy.

This kind of relationship is considered wild by many, it still has its own set of boundaries and rules. Both the partners must agree to these guidelines while entering into this kind of relationship. Both the partners should respect each other and abide by all the rules set by them.

Casual Relationship

A casual relationship is the one where the relationship is usually a new one. In this kind of a relationship, the two people might be seeing each other for a long time but have not defined the relationship.

There is no kind of commitment in a casual relationship and the partners are answerable to each other. They are not serious about the relationship; hence, it’s not necessary for them to make their casual partner meet with their friends or family members.

A casual relationship is a kind of open relationship with no inhibitions. But in an open relationship, the two partners are into a defined relationship whereas, in a casual relationship, the two people are just having fun together.

A Casual relationship implies that you are not planning for the long-term with this person. And the person with whom you are having a casual relationship should be also on the same page as yours and both of you should have the same level of expectations from each other. This way a casual relationship would work out otherwise it might stem into another kind of relationship.

In a casual relationship, there is no room for intimacy, care, support, and lovey-dovey messages. The couples entering into a casual relationship also set some boundaries as in of any of the partners starts getting emotional feelings or attachment with the other person, they should just terminate the relationship if the other person is not ready to take this casual relationship into a serious one.

However, casual relationships can be a great way to explore different types of activities, engage with others without any demands of long-term commitment and also develop a social circle.

Friends with Benefits                                                          

Friend with Benefits is a relationship in which two friends agree to be physically intimate with each other with no strings attached. In this kind of relationship, there should be no romantic feelings involved between the two persons. The two are not boyfriend and girlfriend; they are just friends with benefits.

Friends with benefits relationship can be tricky as you will just have a physical relationship with that other person who might be your good friend but there would be no emotional attachment. But who knows when friends with benefits relationship turn into a serious relationship?

There is no commitment in this relationship, and some people do not like commitment and they prefer a relationship where there are expectations and commitment issues.

People who get into friends with benefits have all the freedom to experiment in the bedroom, provided their partner is interested at the same level. It is a way to have fun without any complexities and a committed romantic relationship. You are not obligated to do things that you don’t want to do and you are not tied down to each other.

Some questions might arise in this type of relationship. A few of these questions are below:

  1. How would you feel if this person met someone else?
  2. How would you feel when your friend moves in with someone else and enters into a monogamous relationship? Would you be totally fine with it?
  3. Do you think this relationship would survive without any intimacy and no emotions attached?

Think of the answers to these questions before entering into this relationship type otherwise, it might difficult for you as you go through the phases of this relationship.

There are people who take a break from this kind of relationship and continue again and there are some who take it to the long-term. It depends on person to person.

And there might be a situation where one of the partners may find their love or get attracted to someone else. In this case, they might just leave and maybe without warning. So, you will ah veto be prepared for all of these situations when you enter into a “Friends with Benefits” Relationship.

Asexual Relationship

An Asexual relationship is a type of relationship in which a person may experience romantic attraction but do not feel the urge to get physical or he/she does not have sexual feelings.

Asexuality is a sexual orientation, just like homosexuality, heterosexuality, and bisexuality. However, asexual is a term that exists on a large spectrum, It describes a variety of ways in which an asexual person or asexual relationship can be described.

In an asexual relationship, people have the same emotional needs as everyone else and they desire an emotionally intimate relationship with other people. The asexual people may be attracted to the same sex or other sexes as well. But, when two people are getting into an asexual relationship, both the partners should be on the same page. Both the partners should make their emotional and other desires as their priority, not sexual ones.

The asexual relationship is a wide term as there are different experiences that one can have in an asexual relationship. Asexual person can fall in love, experience arousal, have orgasms, get married, have children but the thing is he won’t be always up for getting wild in the bed.

In some asexual relationships, people might prefer close friendships to intimate relationships. Some might experience arousal and some might just use their own tools and techniques to ejaculate while having no interest in getting laid with the other person. And there might be some who would engage in the sexual act to gain an emotional connection and bonding.

Basically, asexuality is defined as a lack of sexual attraction.

Toxic Relationship

A toxic relationship is a relationship regarded as activities of the toxic partner that are mostly emotionally and not physically destructive to their partner. It is actually defined by the consistency, intensity, and damage. Toxic relationships might cause colossal breakage to people or families involved.

A toxic relationship is characterized by uncertainty, self-centeredness, dominance, and control. This relationship might make you feel drained, exhausted and even distraught at times. You might even have to face never-ending drama which might cause relationship to destroy if it persists for a longer term.

A toxic relationship can negatively affect your self-esteem, your happiness as you might be not happy emotionally in this relationship. You might have chosen your partner all by yourself but you never knew he/she would turn out to be toxic. It’s not that a toxic relationship cannot be happy; there are ways in which you can deal with a toxic partner and again have a healthy and successful relationship.

Most of the relationships start with a healthy note but some bad feelings, unmet needs, and other things might change people or make people toxic in the relationship. It can happen to anyone and in any relationship. But instead of just backing out, both the partner should sort it out together and make a way out.

The Changing Relationship

This is the type of relationship in which the couples adjust with each other by changing their routines, lifestyle, interests, and hobbies. The couples change themselves so as to make their relationship survive. This relationship totally requires compromise and acceptance.

Acceptance is something that every relationship requires but not compromise. But when you are compromising for something good, there is no harm in doing that. And most of the relationships survive on these two elements. Isn’t it?

But, when you partner wants you to change, think about and enter into a relationship because not everyone likes to change. And relationship is not a place for you to change your personality just for some other person.

The Best Friends Relationship

When you are in a Best Friends relationship, you are comfortable talking and connecting with your partner. You and your best friend know mostly everything about each other but there is no intimacy between you two. You two are just friends who share each and everything with each other. He/she might be your go-to person.

Not all relationships are meant to last. While some last until the end of the life, others might connect you to different set of people and experiences.

So, before entering into a relationship, you should first get to know yourself and your partner. Take your time and understand your partner and move into a relationship.

Now, it’s your turn to decide in which type of relationship you fit in or you would wish to be in!

Think before commitment!!!

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